From the author of the bestselling parenting book 1-2-3 Magic

All parents realize how important good social skills are, both for themselves and for their children. Good social skills include a willingness to admit one's mistakes, accept responsibility and feel bad when one has hurt someone else. Parents sometimes demand, therefore, that their kids apologize when the children have offended another person. This quick guide looks at the wisdom of this adult strategy. In Apologies, you will learn:

Why do parents ask children to apologize?
What is the connection between apologies and punishment?
What's the difference between a heartfelt and a hypocritical apology?
How do you teach children sympathy or empathy?

This Quick Reference Guide is perfect for busy adults who need expert parenting advice—fast!

From the author of the bestselling parenting book 1-2-3 Magic

A straightforward battle plan for handling tantrums, this handy guide explains the core concepts of this powerful yet easy-to-learn program. Of all the behavioral problems parents face from their children, temper tantrums may be the most upsetting as well as the hardest to manage. Major meltdowns may also be the most potent tool kids have when it comes to training their parents to do what the children want. Moms and dads who have learned to fear tantrums have an extremely difficult time maintaining control of their homes. This guide explains the three main causes of tantrums, the two goals of tantruming children, the problem with distraction and reasoning, the power of the "The Ten-Second Rule," a four-step process for meltdown management, and how to handle tantrums in public.

This Quick Reference Guide is perfect for busy adults who need expert parenting advice—fast!

A basic philosophical approach for curbing bad behavior

Noting that of all the behavioral problems parents face from their children, temper tantrums may be the most upsetting, this companion DVD to the Tantrums! handbook arms confused and frustrated parents with simple, easy-to-follow directions on how to best manage the problem and guide kids appropriately. Parents and educators will learn the three main causes of temper tantrums, the true power of the “10-Second Rule,” the anatomy of a typical tantrum, and the chief problems with attempting to reason with or distract a child. A sound and effective tantrum-management plan is critical to the well being of everyone in the family, and this DVD details an effortless four-step process for marshalling tantrums as well as guidance on how to handle dreaded tantrums in public places, allowing parents to no longer fear tantrums and regain control of their own homes.

The simplest, most effective program for raising disciplined, happy children

This revised edition of the award-winning 1-2-3 Magic program addresses the difficult task of child discipline with humor, keen insight, and proven experience. The technique offers a foolproof method of disciplining children ages two through 12 without arguing, yelling, or spanking. By means of three easy-to-follow steps, parents learn to manage troublesome behavior, encourage good behavior, and strengthen the parent-child relationship—avoiding the “Talk-Persuade-Argue-Yell-Hit” syndrome that frustrates so many parents. Ten strategies for building a child’s self-esteem and the six types of testing and manipulation a parent can expect from the child are discussed, as well as tips on how to prevent homework arguments, make mealtimes more enjoyable, conduct effective family meetings, and encourage children to start doing their household chores. New advice about kids and technology and new illustrations bring this essential parenting companion completely up to date.